big fat frizzy hair?

So i got a perm, and i've been deep conditioning and trimming and taking care of it like a good girl so its really really healthy and sexy

but i like having big messy frizzball crazy hair (see latest makeup pics photo for example), and my hair doens't wanna stay teased!!!! no matter how much hairspray i attack it with
someone help?

try using all volumizing products...volumizing shampoo and conditioner, mousse, the works. add some dry shampoo at your roots too, and see how that helps.

...don't condition it so much? sometimes too much conditioner can make your hair too slippy

shit i posted this in makeup.. someone wanna move?

Yeah I have curly hair and that's pretty much what it does when I don't condition it enough and muss it up loads when it's drying. Or, simply step outside when it's humid. Though it might be bad for your hair not to condition since mine's pretty much a wreck from not taking enough care of it.

Not sure how to keep the volume in. Try blow drying it upside down and messing it up as you go, but leave it a bit damp to do its thing, then put it upside down again when it's dry and rub some gel into the roots? You might have to use some sort of leave in conditioner/cream to get rid of unwanted frizz. I've never worn it huuuuge like that but blow drying the roots and putting in a bit of gel usually holds up well for me.