I think...

if people wanna discuss it, it's allowed.

i can see why people would want to discuss it rather than just brush it away.
and its brought up some other things people have mentioned.

so its all fine.

if anyone has something to say, feel free to voice it. noone's gonna shout at you for it.

yourroyalscrumptiousness wrote:

One of the biggest problems I have, is that people are scared of posting their opinions sometimes. I've noticed a couple of times, that I've had a conflicting opinion to other people, so I voiced it after a while, and only then did other people come out and say that they agree.
It's as if people are afraid that they won't be accepted if they voice a conflicting opinion.

Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut I must stress, that's just my opinion, it doesn't mean the forum is going downhill into shitsville.

Tbh that's really the person posting's problem and not the forum's. As long as no one makes personal attacks at each other don't be scared, people.

Oh and by the way it's pure coincidence that I quoted your post in this and the absence post. I'm not picking on ya!
I heart you Jade!

That's what I'm tryna say! It's just a few people's opinions, not the whole forum's. I just happen to be the only person with that opinion that hasn't left yet, and I'm feeling like that's making people hold something against me?

It's my opinion guys.

I think I'm the kind of person who keeps the debating topics and the general topics seperate in my mind, if you know what I mean. Like if someone has some conflicting opinion to me I don't let it get in the way in the more light hearted topics.
Although I don't think arguments or anything have been a problem on this forum.. more on the old one.

I think it's really sad that quite a few people have left.. I miss Akira

yeah man remember the arguments in i think.. health? on the old forum?
jeeezsus christ!

especially in the weight discussions

...

i think i was involved in one *hangs head in shame*

It semed on the old forum, alot of those arguments were started because certain members had the attitude of "my opinion is the right opinion" you know. At least the ones I was involved in were that way. I used to find it quite irritating and frustrating as I generally try to see where other people are coming from.
But anyway, I don't really think any of those members came to this new forum. Which makes me very happy

yeah didn't one of the worst offenders get le banned?

Hahaha..you mean Crazy Cola right?
Man, was that girl rude and ignorant.

bahahahaha yes thats her

Hahaha I always think about the arguments b/w her and Riot. Crazy stuff!

almost as crazy as lemmings

Man, I was at that board and I have no idea what you guys are talking about... I guess I didn't post much there... BUT still, you'd think I'd at least know something.

I wanna start a fight, someone fight with me so when Kiki gets back, she can freak out a little. :] hahah.

lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzZzz.

ahahahah shed be like OMG!!!!!!!!

my forum!!!


AAAUUUGHHHHHH

and then she'd realize we were joking and be all hurrrr not funny. and then giggle.

Yeah, she's prolly ban us..... for like 5 minutes. ! hilarious.

haha...

I'm almost tempted now

but what would we fight about? we all love each other too much to get angry ahaha

...speak for yourself. =-O

hahaha.

I guess I wouldn't be convincing, I would be too scared someone would take it seriously. And then as soon as someone said something mean to me, I'd prolly cry. a lot.

aawwww *huggles*

ILL BAN YOU HO!

haha I loved the arguments with riot and crazy.
but that wasnt why riot got banned...she mad criticisms to someone about makeup and stuff and there was drama cos the girl couldnt take it...and then she came back and had all the crazy fights with the cola girl...Riot owned her ass.

And Jade I hope you havent felt like I'm funny with you or mean or anything...I just kind of wanting to find everything out, espeically if people are leaving because of it! I still hearts yoooo!