For some reason I always think of Phenomena - Yeah Yeah Yeahs for this.
Perhaps because it would SO be my stripper song
some of these might not work for you and they're not my ideas. I looked them up in the tags of a mixtape community I'm in.
For BDSM!!!Adam Ant- beat my guest
Depeche Mode-in your room
Janet Jackson- rope burn
Depeche Mode - Master And Servant
Destinys Child - Cater To You
Faster Pussycat - Where there's a whip there's a way
venus in furs by the velvet underground
abc's of kinky sex by lords of acid
masochism tango by Tom Lehrer
pull my hair by bright eyes
Pleasure and Pain by Divinyls
Whole albums for making love toappleseed cast - low level owl volumes 1 & 2
"in sounds from way out" - beastie boys
sigur ros - ( )
1. mogwai - come on, die young
2. mogwai - young team
3. iron & wine - the creek drank the cradle
Discovery by Daft Punk
loveless by my bloody valentine.
more of a making love playlistplaylist for sex01. High School Lover - Air
02. In The Waiting Line - Zero 7
03. Sleep - The Dandy Warhols
04. Lightness - Death Cab For Cutie
05. Bad Sects - Cursive
06. Tautou - Brand New
07. Mad World - Gary Jules
08. The Quiet Things That No One Ever Knows (acoustic) - Brand New
09. Wonderwall - Oasis
10. Closer - Nine Inch Nails
some songs about sex"Hallelujah" -Jeff Buckley
"We Looked Like Giants" -Death Cab For Cutie
"Ice Heavy Branches" -The Appleseed Cast
"Naked As We Came" -Iron & Wine
"The First Five Times" -Stars
"Portions For Foxes" -Rilo Kiley
"Phenomena" -Yeah Yeah Yeahs
"I Touch Myself" -Blondie
"Shh-" Frou Frou
"Your Body Is A Wonderland" -John Mayer
"Something to Do with my Hands" -Her Space Holiday
"In The Waiting Line" -Zero 7